To make this long story short, he was not my soul mate and he’s probably not your either.
I got dumped OVER THE PHONE by someone I was dating. It was expected. He really wasn’t for me and as much as I wanted it to work out, it just wasn’t going to happen. We fought all the time and rarely saw eye to eye.
The minute I got off the phone with him I LITERALLY took a sigh of relief and realized that I have been acting like a crazy person. Not to him or in this relationship, but to myself. I have worked very hard on being a powerful and confident woman and throughout the relationship, I never felt powerful OR confident. That was red flag numero uno.
This is by no means me putting the blame on him…. I should’ve realized that we are simply not compatible in the very beginning.
I’m not going to dwell on what happened or make this a sob story, but I do want to say that NO ONE should ever feel unworthy in a relationship. It does not matter if you have been dating someone for one month or one year… If you don’t feel motivated to do what you love every day and feel that you are missing that energy between you and your partner, RUN!
Relationships should be fun!
Find someone who will laugh with you when you’re being goofy, smiles at you for no reason, hugs you when you’re feeling down and helps you see the world in a different way.
It’s a new page – let’s find our soulmate
After reading this article, I realized that I have not been using the manifestation tools that everyone talks about.
The Soul Mate Wish List
This definitely requires a leap of faith, but I am ready to clarify exactly what it is I desire and I KNOW that after this… the universe will answer my call.
Some examples of important qualities in a partner:
Enjoys Photography, Movies, and Travel
If you are still out there searching for your soulmate or find yourself stuck on Tinder, JSwipe, Bumble, or Hinge…ask yourself, “What is it that I really want?”
Start telling yourself this – See you soon mystery man!